North Texas [Collin County] couples take ban on gay marriage personally
"To have other people vote on my marriage is outrageous to me," said [CCGLA Board Member] Lorie Burch, a Plano lawyer who married her partner, [CCGLA Volunteer] Jane Colley, in Torrance, Calif., on July 18. "There are a lot of people's marriages I'd like to weigh in on, but I don't have that right."
[CCGLA Members] David Northway and Loras Freihoefer of Plano married in a beach ceremony near San Francisco on July 26, surrounded by family, friends and co-workers. "We've been together 19 years," Mr. Northway said. "We wanted to do it, and we thought it was positive for people to see a gay couple get married."
Mr. Northway said he was at his computer Tuesday night and Wednesday morning, searching for Proposition 8 returns from California. "I do believe it is a large setback," he said of the measure's passage. "But if I had to look at the positives, [the vote] raised more awareness, more discussion."
An editorial in The New York Times' put it best -
"Even as the nation shattered one barrier of intolerance, we were disappointed that voters in four states chose to reinforce another. Ballot measures were approved in Arkansas, Arizona, Florida and California that discriminate against couples of the same sex. We do not view these results as reason for despair. Struggles over civil rights never follow a straight trajectory, and the ugly outcome of these ballot fights should not obscure the building momentum for full equality for gay people, including acceptance of marriage between gay men and women. But the votes remind us of how much remains to be done before this bigotry is finally erased.
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